Leap Year the movie. Movie poster.If you recall seeing the 2010 movie, LEAP YEAR, starring Amy Adams and Matthew Goode, then you know a great deal of fun can be poked at the long-held European tradition of ladies taking a turn, roughly once every four years, in the dominant role of pursuer in a romantic relationship.

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And, as self-classified “European Americans” made up a steadily rising percentage of Americans from the year 1800 through 1900, it’s not surprising that the predominately English-speaking white population in the Victorian-Era United States would recognize European traditions, holidays, superstitions, comportment, decorum, fashions, attitudes, expectations, gender roles and ever so much more.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/European_Americans

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/European_Americans

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A LADY MAY ASK A GENTLEMAN

Leap Year Quip. Ladies ask men to marry. Black silk dress. The Winfield Tribune. Winfield KS. 4 Feb 1885.

The Winfield Tribune. Winfield, Kansas. 4 February, 1885.

1908 leap year proposal. purchaseed card fill in blank. pinterest

But according to an article titled LEAP YEAR, and subtitled: Ladies’ law in Leap Year–Bachelors’ Penalty, as published in The Weekly Kansas Chief newspaper on 21 January, 1892, “A lady has the privilege in leap year of suggesting marriage between herself and a bachelor acquaintance. In the event of his refusing, the penalty is that the ungallant gentleman shall present the tender damsel with a new silk dress.

“There is a reservation, however, that the right to claim this penalty depends upon the circumstances that, when she proposed, the damsel was the wearer of a scarlet petticoat, which (or a little of the lower portion of which) she must exhibit to the gentleman, the understood idea being that the silken dress shall cover the petticoat, and thus assuage dire feminine indignation at the rejection of her offered hand.”

And yes, “penalties” were extracted–in Queen Margaret’s day, the hefty sum of £100 (see article, below). In Victorian America, ladies often received a silk dress (hence the quip, above) as a “so sorry, but no” gift. The image of a commercial 1908 Leap Year card a young lady might mail to a gentleman she adores indicates a pair of gloves would be an adequate refusal gift.

The tradition of Leap Year and Ladies’ prerogative apparently began in 1288 with Margaret, Queen of Scots. Apparently, women had to be tough, strong, forthright, and know exactly what they wanted. Not easy, in a typical Victorian-era world where women had been coached from infancy to accept the assigned role of “the fairer sex”. Still, the socially acceptable thing included the Leap Year tradition, so in those magical years including 1868, 1872, 1876, 1880, 1884, 1888, 1892, 1896, 1904, 1908 (notice: not in 1900), American Victorians did observe the fun traditions, including so much more than simply ladies with the freedom to propose marriage to the object of their affections. Tomorrow’s post explores the rest of the fun–Leap Year Dances and Parties (and all the rules for such), Ladies Law, Leap Year Clubs for both Ladies and Gentlemen and more Leap Year humor.

Leap Year Origin. from 1288 and Margaret Queen of Scots. Published in e Weekly Kansas Chief. Troy KS. 21 January 1892

Leap Year Origin. from 1288. Margaret Queen of Scots. Published in The Weekly Kansas Chief. Troy KS. 21 January 1892.

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LEAP YEAR PROPOSALS, DONE THE PROPER WAY

Leap-Year Proposals. Part 1. The Weekly Kansas Chief. Troy KS. 21 January 1892 Pg1

Leap-Year Proposals. Part 1. The Weekly Kansas Chief. Troy KS. 21 January 1892 Pg1

Leap-Year Proposals. Part 2. The Weekly Kansas Chief. Troy KS. 21 January 1892 Pg1

Leap-Year Proposals. Part 2. The Weekly Kansas Chief. Troy KS. 21 January 1892 Pg1

Leap-Year Proposals. Part 3. The Weekly Kansas Chief. Troy KS. 21 January 1892 Pg1

Leap-Year Proposals. Part 3. The Weekly Kansas Chief. Troy KS. 21 January 1892 Pg1

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HOW GENTLEMEN SHOULD ACT WHEN THEIR ADORERS PROPOSE MARRIAGE

How Men should act when adorer proposes. The Weekly Kansas Chief. Troy KS. 21 January, 1892. Part 1.

How Men should act when adorer proposes. The Weekly Kansas Chief. Troy KS. 21 January, 1892. Part 1.

How Men should act when adorer proposes. The Weekly Kansas Chief. Troy KS. 21 January, 1892. Part 2.

How Men should act when adorer proposes. The Weekly Kansas Chief. Troy KS. 21 January, 1892. Part 2.

Hopefully at least some of the above article–about how a young man might best navigate the sure-to-occur proposals (plural) of marriage during Leap Year–is in good-natured jest. But the advice therein seems prudent and wise. After all, what young man wants to find himself, in an unguarded moment, frightened into a promise to alter (and perhaps ruin) the course of his life?

Had YOU been a marriageable young woman (or widow) in 1888 (a Leap Year) in the American West, would you have mustered the gumption to propose marriage to a bachelor of your acquaintance? Why or why not?

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I WROTE A LEAP-YEAR ROMANCE

Book Description: SOPHIA’S LEAP-YEAR COURTSHIP


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I have MORE for you to enjoy about history’s REAL details about Leap Year and the Victorian Age in America: Leap Into Love The Victorian Way (Sweet Americana Sweethearts)

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Victorian Leap Year Traditions, Part 2

INCLUDING:

Rules for Leap Year Parties

Leap Year Clubs for Men and Women

Leap Year Romances

Leap Year Ladies’ Law

and more!

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